Flash Forward

The harder you try to alter the future, the more inevitable it becomes. The future is the most delicate item we have in our grasps. It changes so readily. Any changes we have made this future changes.

Past Destroys the Future

The past destroys the future! ‘Hope’ for fixing the past for the future is akin to believing in the ‘tooth fairy’. The past behavior and personal experiences in matters of relationships is best regarded as an indicator of future experiences and behavior. The past is like an ‘aroma shadow’ of the future. At this point in time, there are rare few exceptions for those looking for the breezes of a love life that reverses past difficulties.Going to ‘mental workers’ to correct the problem is like hiring an expert painter to paint a fire damaged house.
Bad habits are usually denied and projected on to others for escaping responsibility. Humans cling to habits that annoy others without examining them for correction. Refusal to look at and change those behaviors is followed by many excuses to rationalize behavior that a loved one is suppose to accept ‘out of love’!

 Love can become a means to control the others life to better satisfy the ‘controller of love’s own life’. Love is about saying, ‘how am I doing so far’? Real love just adjusts naturally to common sense. Make it a quest to find a couple in deep love, verify that and, try to spend time observing them. Couples in serious love may be like trying to find a needle in a haystack but, it’s more than worth the benefits if activated in ones own life.
Reaccuring mood swings are usually symptomatic of unresolved issues from childhood that rarely find themselves over the years more than ‘painted over’. Jennifer Jones, a beautiful actress who was mentioned at this years Oscar Academy Awards as having ‘passed’ recently, was married several times, once to the ‘movie mogul’ and Producer of “Gone with the Wind”, David O. Selznick. Jennifer Jones led an outward life that would be the envy of most women in the world but inwardly, a disaster. My friend, Jess Stern, author of the best NY Times selling book, ‘Soulmates’, said once that she use to call him over the years with her emotional mood swings, once after stabbing herself in the abdomen. The ‘swing’ never stops, rich or poor and, changing relationships is futile.

Inner life determines all outcomes in matters involving love. Moving from one to another in hopes of finding love that endures is like looking for enduring ‘mediterranean’ weather in Alaska or Siberia. Life gives back how you feel about yourself. It’s that simple! A total revolution of the heart and an examination with correction of the ‘roots of the issues’ is a beginning of being on track for love and a life everyone deserves. ‘Chemistry’ in the beginning usually loses the ‘bang’ as ‘elements’ change character. Love is the ‘key to life’ - that key opens the doors to all life’s riches!

Arhata

"Right Now..."

Somebody is thinking of you.

Somebody is caring about you.

Somebody misses you.

Somebody wants to talk to you.

Somebody wants to be with you.

Somebody hopes you aren't in trouble.

Somebody is thankful for your support.

Somebody is very proud of you.

Somebody wants to hold your hand.

Somebody hopes everything is all right.

Somebody wants you to be happy.

Somebody wants you to find them.

Somebody is celebrating your successes.

Somebody wants to give you a gift.

Somebody thinks that you ARE a gift.

Somebody hopes you're not to cold, or too hot.

Somebody wants to hug you.

Somebody admires your strength.

Somebody is thinking of you and smiling.

Somebody wants to be your shoulder to cry on.

Somebody thinks the world of you.

Somebody wants to protect you.

Somebody would do anything for you.

Somebody is grateful for forgiveness.

Somebody wants to laugh with you.

Somebody wishes that you were there.

Somebody wants to share their dreams with you.

Somebody can't wait to see you.

Somebody wants to tell you how much they care.

Somebody wants you to know, their love is unconditional.

Somebody values your advice.

Somebody treasures your spirt.

Somebody is praising GOD for you.

Somebody loves you for who you are.

Somebody love's the way you make them feel.

Somebody wants you to know they are there for you.

Somebody glad that you're their friend.

Somebody wants to get to know you better.

Somebody has faith in you.

Somebody trust you.

Somebody needs your support.

Somebody wants you to be blessed.

Somebody wants to be a blessng.

Somebody needs you to have faith in them.

Somebody is praying for you.

Somebody loves you.

somebody will cry when they read this...

Uniqueness of Time

The phenomenon of time is wondrous and extremely incredible. It has lasted throughout history. It lasted if we understood it or not. It is one of the only things that can change in a blink of an eye. Drastically it changes if one aspect of its history changes the slightest. However it is also extremely mysterious as well.

Each point in time is different from all other points. Outcomes can always change in a blink of an eye. You always realize other attributes as you go through the state of time. Time touches all living beings in some way or another. It is natural. Man only made a way of tracking time. However it does exist throughout the cosmos and beyond.

The Day Never seems that Bad

We know have people who predict the weather and the like, and their say is usually right, or is it? You can always produce your own internal and external weather pattern, just by the mood that you are in.

This may be difficult to understand however, it is always accomplished. Every interaction, every day can change the way you think, the same way every gust of wind changes the weather pattern.

Your mood can also change by the colors you where, as well as where you are located. Not to mention the words that you use are powerful reciprocation of your moods as well as other reciprocations of your day.

Should we take prediction of outcomes as seriously as we do? At least stay open to new opportunities as they as always will be presented. Existence has no deadlines. We make them all up ourselves. The funny thing is that we are not even aware of the fact. So just have fun with it and live in the moment. It will last as long as interest in it.

Timing is not Everything

Timing is not the most important thing. Everything does not have the same importance level in life, because as it gets more complex, everything that is important is shifting. As life gets more complex, it tends to the importance level shifts.

It is so important to recognize this as an ongoing phenomenon, because if we do not then our lives won't seem to be in order. These ongoing phenomena are getting more complex as more time surpasses.
Communication is getting more restrained with technology. As the advancement of technology communication has to get better attuned. It may be difficult to have communication be supported by technology, however it has to be.

Communication has everything to do with time. You have to say things at the right time or they will become a mess. The more effectively you use your time in communicational standpoints, the more value you shall receive from both.

What does the Future Hold?

The future is always in question. However unpredictable it has to be as decent as it can, to not make anything to frantic. Life must always be respected for it is like a flower striving for the light.



No matter if the light is somewhat cloudy, the life of all is fragile. Fear is always mixed with life as well as consciousness.



Alternatives have to always exist no matter the consequence. Exploration is the futures primary mission of existence, no matter how much the vitality of this reality is affected.



Life is the highest gift which is in and of itself. It is challenging for all. Through it all we have the ability to change as well as to discover new issues.



Knowledge is power; however power is not always of logical essence. Opportunity is not always relevant for all of knowledgeable existence. This is in essence a scale of great proportional decency. It is a power being as close to fire, being just as deadly and as beautiful, the choice is yours alone. Even though to be loved, as well as plain love is a winning combination for all, the choice is still yours alone.



Life is and always will be a crucial dance. You have the power to live a great life as well as the possibility to spread it and ultimately enjoy its gratifying rewards.



Change is always a challenging chance for a brighter future. Knowledge is always relevant to the human way of being throughout the moments of all time.